Barbecue party on the riverside☆

Yesterday,I threw the barbecue party together with my friends on the riverside.

It was awesome.There are good nature,beautiful river,and delicious foods.we had a great time eating a lot of food,swimming in the river.we haven't contacted with each other for a long time.but thanks to this event, I could hear about their great efforts in their own fields.I'd like to value what they are doing.Although they work at different place,in different field.

Compared to their splendid work,as for me,It seemed to look shabby.Sometimes I feel such an uneasy feeling.It seemed that my friends continue to proceed leaving me alone.

This is not true,This is just what I thought negatively.My Toeic score is showing my improvement.So,I will continue to try.

oh my god!The story deviated from Barbecue party...I have to go back to the subject.

umm,well, although I enjoyed Barbecue party,now...I am suffering from sun burn.It's really hart....

The Bon holidays☆

There are three long holidays in Japan.They are the new year holidays,Golden week,and the Bon holidays.Needless to say,whether we can have days off or not depends on the job we have.
But basically,most people can have days off during these time.
In my case,during this time,in addition I worked at restaurant,I had to work as a buddist monk.
Because My family's job is a buddist monk.And it has been taken over from generation to generation since long time ago.
Today, let me introduce our job during Obon.

First we visit patron's house.and then,we chant Buddhist invocation in front of patron's home alter, in order to hold a memorial service for ancestors.it takes about 10 minutes.After chanting, we can receive a donation.Basically it is put on the desk in front of alter.
In our region's case,1000 yen per one patron is the average.But It apparently depends on a region.seeing from general average,our region is quite low.
But of course,It doesn't matter the price of donation.The important thing is an thankful heart.

On the other hand,There is a reality that we can't continue to work as a Buddhist monk because of lacking funds.In my house's case,we can't make our living from only this job.That's why my father has two jobs,As a monk and social worker.

I also have to think about my style of working.

our life is limited☆

Recently I've been very busy.I can't do all things I have to do.
So,it means that troublesome things are adding up day by day.It quite bothers me.
I'd ask everyone how you deal with this kind of fact.Actually the ideas which come in my mind are doing somethings more efficiently and judging properly wether it really need or not.

First one isn't a big problem for me.Because when I do something,I always seek better way.And I think it's improving gradually.
But second one is very difficult for me.I'm not good at judging if it really need or not.Because I tend to try to do everything.But I know It's impossible.If we try to do everything,no matter how much time there is,It is not enough.

I often wish a day could have 48 hours.

Anyway,all I need now is think about priority and do it from top priority.

I had a great time☆

Yesterday,as my work finished earlier than usual,I ate out with my co-workers.
It' been long time since the last time I ate out with friends.First we were talking about work.But after that,the topic has been changing gradually.

we came to talk about love relationship.there were one female and two male including me.They both had boyfriend and girlfriend.The person who doesn't have girl friend was only me.haha
They seemed to worry about their relationship.
One guy has been seeing his girl friend for 8 years.But he doesn't know when he should tie the knot with her.I think he is old enough to get married and he can get married at any time.The only need for him is beautiful word of confession.I think it's going to be successful.
Just I hope for his success.

And another guy is suffering from boy friend's attitude.According to her,she wanted to erase his ex-girlfriend address and number from his cellphone.But he apparently refuse her proposal.
In my opinion,He'd better erase it,if he love his present girlfriend.And I think even though he erase it,nothing would change.If he want to get along with her, it's easy way to just erase ex-girlfriend information.I guess he might have any reliance on ex girl friend.

Anyway,Their distresses are luxury for me.Because I don't have girl friend now!haha
But now,it's really the time that I can concentrate on my goal.and I am thinking It won't be too late to look for loved one after I accomplish one goal which is becoming a teacher.